1. Make a plan called “How to Have the Best Summer Ever!”
2. Realize on the second day of summer that your plan is garbage.
3. Make a new plan called “Our Carefree Summer!”
4. Don’t tell everyone that your new summer plan is actually called “Dear God help us I miss the structure.”
5. Send your three year old back to his room every morning at 6:00 am.
6. Purchase a fancy color-changing clock for your three year old that will glow green when he is allowed to leave his room in the morning.
7. Say “Stay in your room until your clock is green” every five minutes starting every morning at 6:00 am.
9. If June: buy expensive mineral sunscreen and have your children stand like statues while you slather it on like spackle.
10: If July (or mid to late June, whenever you crack): buy cheap spray sunscreen and mist in your child’s general direction. Ask them lovingly to “close eyes and pinch noses.”
11. Just come to terms with the fact that sand will be everywhere.
12. Cry a little bit when you see the first back-to-school display.
13. Cry a little harder when your six year old learns super soakers are a thing.
15. Teach your kids that the “S Word” is “Snack,” and we do not swear.
16. Glance into your child’s room to see clothes and sand and toys and books and bedding everywhere. Then say a different kind of “S Word” and just shut that door. Shut the door.
17. Try not to look too excited when your kid says he’s tired. “Do you want to TAKE A NAP DO YOU WANT TO TAKE A NAP?” Nope, he’s good now.
18. Visit every park that’s ever existed. Pack every vegetable and cracker and fruit you’ve ever owned. Listen to children complain about being bored and hungry.
19. Attempt to put your child to bed when the sun is still very high in the sky.
20. Try to explain daylight savings time and end up crying and exclaiming that it really, truly is bedtime, no matter what it looks like outside.
21. More wine.
22. Curse the “young adults” next door who are being loudly unsupportive of your belief that it is, in fact, bedtime.
23. Send your kid back to his room.
24. Send your kid back to his room.
25. Send your kid back to his room.
26. Go to sleep.
27. Wake up; send your kid back to his room.
28. Make a mental note to research how tiny humans function with so little sleep. You never will, though. You’re too tired!
29. Buy school supplies far too early. Think about teachers. Mentally send them a fruity cocktail. They earned it, man.
30. Start planning activities that are an hour or two away, just for the air-conditioned kid-buckled driving time.
31. Watch your kid swim the entire length of the pool underwater, when last year he wouldn’t even go down the slide.
32. Realize that summers really go pretty fast, even if sometimes they seem kinda long.
33. Remember it’s your three year old’s last summer before he starts school — preschool, sure — but school nonetheless.
34. Watch your six year old ride a bike without training wheels, after summers of complete bike apathy.
35. Sit in the grass with your kids and catch fireflies long after they should be in bed.
36. Think “this summer thing isn’t so bad.”
37. Get up too early, stay up too late, overplan the warm July days you have left.
38. Vow to do the same when it’s August.
39. You’ll sleep when you’re dead, anyway.
40. (Or when school starts.)
41. (Or when daylight savings time FINALLY ENDS.)
42. Stop rolling your eyes when people say, “oh, they’re only young once.” Even though they’re actually young for like 12-18 years or however you want to gauge it.
43. I mean, they are only young once.
44. At least, they’re only six and three during summer once.
45. So decide to just “soak it all up.”
46. Except for the sand.
47. I mean, you’ll soak that up anyway without even trying.
48. Maybe invest in some industrial strength blackout curtains.
49. Buy lots of coffee and wine.
50. Embrace your summer fully.
(51. And pray for all of the teachers. Their time is coming. You know it, I know it, they know it; pray, just pray, just pray.)